Your Spouse Is Not Your Problem!

by Tony and Kim Moore

How often have we thought that our marriage would be more fulfilling if our “spouse” only did this or that? Couples routinely place the burden of marital fulfillment upon their spouse. This means that blame must be constantly reassigned to the spouse responsible for the experience we have in marriage. And while this might work on paper, it doesn’t in real life!

Out growing the need for blame by accepting personal responsibility for our experience in marriage is the surest way to improving our experience! And while spouses’ are not responsible for how the other behaves, each is responsible for how he or she responds to that behavior.

Marriage is perfect! It does what it is designed to do. And it does exactly the same 3 things to all men and women that enter into it. It blesses, breaks and bestows them upon one another. Our response to each of these determines the quality of our personal experience in marriage.

The book, “Your Spouse Is Not Your Problem!” helps couples understand the rationale for blessing, breaking and bestowing their gifts upon one another in marriage. It explores the idea of conformity to Christ and the development of unconditional love through marriage. Conflict is discussed as God’s request for something each spouse has so that He can release more of Himself in each. Through real life examples, readers begin to identify what God is asking of each; and how to offer it to Him in a manner that He can make the husband or wife that is at odds with us to be at peace with us.

Tony Moore (LPC), Kim Moore (MSW, LCCT)
The Center On Christian Relationships
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